Friday, August 30, 2013

Rend: Second Chance

Second Chance: by Rend Collective Experiment

My future hangs on this
You make preciousness from dust
Please don't stop creating me

Your blood offers the chance
To rewind to innocence
Reborn perfect as a child

When sin and ugliness
Collide with redemption's kiss
Beauty awakens by romance

Always inside this mess
I have found forgiveness
Mercy infinite as You

Fragments of brokenness
Salvaged by the art of grace
You craft life from our mistakes

Black skies of my regrets
Outshone by this kindness
New life dawns over my soul


Oh, Your cross, it changes everything
There my world begins again with You
Oh, Your cross, it's where my hope restarts
A second chance is heaven's heart

Countless second chances
we've been given at the cross



The first time I heard this song, I thought it had a good sound and all, and I caught fragments of lyrics, honestly. After actually catching the lyrics, however, I find it a more and more beautiful song. There's a lot here, so I'd like to throw out some thoughts.


You make preciousness from dust

We are made of dust. Poetically, this is, of course charming. Scientifically, however, this is quite close to true. Dust is made up of carbon, water, nitrogen, and a handful of other rather organic substances. These are very much the same things we're made of. One of the major sources of dust (domestic dust, of course) is discarded skin cells. We are made of dust. Dust is made of us. Preciousness is a word that, of course, means something of great value. And of course, life is of great value. But the word also implies a sort of fragility. It is used to describe something cherished, yes, but something cherished that is to be protected. One doesn't refer to a diamond as precious, because its enduring quality seems to render this the wrong term. We are fragile. Life is fragile. How quickly things can turn around, how quickly everything we hold dear can be turned on its head. How suddenly life can be taken away. It is, indeed precious.


Please don't stop creating me

This is a beautiful thought, that creation is unfinished. And how appropriate. We find ourselves in all sorts of strange situations that we handle as best we can, but, we look back at decisions later, and I, for one, find myself rethinking things. There are those who claim that people never change. I'm not sure that's true. I'm actually quite sure it's not. I know this can be spun many ways, and that we live into the person we eventually become, but I'm certain we spend a good amount of time being other people along the way. It's a necessary path, but not always pretty at every point along the way. We do undergo transformations, and the care taken to get places is remarkable.


Your blood offers the chance
to rewind to innocence

There is some subtlety here. It's not, "Your blood rewinds us to innocence." It's, "Your blood offers the chance." We are given a chance to accept grace. We're given lots of chances to accept grace. But it's on us to accept it. And it's not about earning it; it's strictly a gift: a generous, kind, crazy, totally undeserved, wildly unfair gift. And there's no difference among those who accept this gift; you don't earn bonus points.


You craft life from our mistakes

Truth.



While there is much more to be said, these are just some of my thoughts when listening to this song. It's a lot to take in at once, but it does all present itself every time. It's a slice of truth and beauty that always manages to sneak up on me.

Monday, July 22, 2013

Zimmerman

One of the bigger stories circulating at the moment is the George Zimmerman trial. In case you live under a particularly large rock (or are reading this far enough in the future to where it's slipped off the radar), here's a quick recap:

The setting:
Florida (of course).

The characters:
One George Zimmerman, a 28-year-old man living in Sanford, Florida, is a neighborhood watch coordinator for some gated community. Trayvon Martin, a 17-year-old high school student, is temporarily staying in said community.

The story:
One night (February 26, 2012), Martin is walking home from a convenience store. Zimmerman is out in his car, running some errand. He notices Martin and calls the police, telling them about a suspicious-looking male, walking around, looking at houses. He makes a comment about Martin looking like he was "up to no good or he is on drugs or something." Before his call is over, he is recorded saying, "these assholes, they always get away." Things heat up. Martin notices he is being followed and tries to run off. Zimmerman relays this to the police, who instruct him not to pursue. Zimmerman pursues. He gets out of his car (as can be heard on the recording), and the call ends at 7:15PM.

Now, off the air.

The police arrive at 7:17PM. Here's what they find: Zimmerman has head injuries. Martin is dead, cause of death: single gunshot wound in the chest, fired from a range of less than 24 inches.

Autopsy:
Martin: 5'11", 158lbs.
Cause of death: single gunshot wound in chest, fired at "intermediate range" (1-18 inches), described as a "contact shot."
Non-lethal wounds: single small abrasion, left ring finger, below knuckle.
Other information: trace levels of THC, the active substance in marijuana (1.5ng/mL) and THC-COOH, a metabolite of THC (7.3ng/mL). These levels are consistent with marijuana consumption several days prior to the event.

Immediate proceedings:
Zimmerman is treated for head wounds and taken in for questioning, which proceeds for approximately five hours. Zimmerman claims self-defense, and no arrest is made, as the local police see no reason to question Zimmerman's story.

Skip ahead sixteen months, during which Zimmerman is formally charged with second-degree murder.

June 24, 2013: Zimmerman trial begins, with a knock-knock joke, of all things.

June 25, 2013: Zimmerman acquitted.

Let the madness ensue.


First, at a time when things seem to be looking up economically, news like this will not be approached lightly. Good news is less attention-grabbing than bad news, and who could resist a story like this one, right? Further, being that this story seems to have it all -- guns, death, racial undertones (amplified by the media, but still present) -- how could any news outlet not run with this? [Side note, free of charge: I do understand that the media will jump on something like this, and it is important to at least bring forth this conversation, so I don't categorically disagree or disapprove of said story breaking. What I do have a problem with, however, is all the sprinkling of extra information, much of which turns out to be false, for the sake of promoting a story that is, regardless of which side you choose to support, tragic.] And lo and behold, this story takes off. Now, being in the public eye, a great many people have an opinion on these proceedings, and most (myself included, it seems) are not too shy to share these opinions. Here's one more to read.

I'd like to start by saying that this is, before all, extremely tragic. Before taking a side, I think it is important to realize that a family lost a son, and another man's life has been pulled apart. These are rather objective. Now, for the side-taking and, admittedly, subjective portion.

Zimmerman wanted to shoot to kill. He had nearly completed an Associate degree in criminal justice (he was in his final semester), and was hoping to become a police officer, and, eventually, a judge. He coordinated the neighborhood watch for his community. He clearly wanted to be an authority figure (Do not hear me say that this is a negative quality. I only say this to establish his interest in being an authority figure.). While the police discourage neighborhood watch members from carrying weapons, Zimmerman was constitutionally permitted to do so (which could lead to another post, and maybe a good conversation). So he carries. His gun was loaded with hollow-points. Hollow-points have their place, make no mistake. It is very unlikely that a hollow-point bullet passes through a target, so in situations in which it could be particularly dangerous for a bullet to emerge out the back of a target (on a ship, aircraft, etc.), these are particularly appealing. They are designed to expand upon entering the target, so as to maximize tissue damage and blood loss, while making extraction particularly difficult, as there is typically significant fragmentation of the bullet upon entry. They are banned for military use by the Hague Convention of 1899, and the ban is upheld in the Geneva Convention. Hollow-point bullets are a particularly nasty animal. They are, however, commonly used by police because of the reduced risk of collateral damage. This reduced risk is a positive, but it comes with the understanding that, should someone be shot, the damage will be increased significantly. Should the person be shot in a more vulnerable area, death is extremely likely, as fragmentation will cause extraction to be particularly problematic. This is one of the primary reasons this type of ammunition is frowned upon by international law. Zimmerman would have been aware of this. Could he simply have been trying to reduce risks? Perhaps. But either way, he would know that, should he shoot someone in a central area, that someone would die. He ignored police advice not to carry, and ignored police instruction to not pursue. Also, let's not forget, "these assholes, they always get away."

In a violent altercation between Martin (5'11", 158 lbs) and Zimmerman (5'7", 200 lbs), Zimmerman pulls his gun and fires a single shot into Martin's chest. Game over.
Some observations:

  • Zimmerman was able to get his hands free, pull his gun, disengage the safety, and fire, point-blank, into the center of Martin's chest, all while fending off violent attacks.
  • Martin is beating on Zimmerman, who outweighs him by forty pounds, so badly that Zimmerman fears for his life.
  • The pursuit on foot, struggle, severe beating, and shooting occur in a space of less than two minutes. And, as the police did not see Zimmerman shoot Martin, the window is quite a bit less than two minutes. This means that Martin overpowered a man who had a forty pound advantage on him and made that man fear for his life in well under two minutes.
  • Of six eyewitness testimonies, two claimed to have seen Martin on top of Zimmerman, one of whom recanted this. Both of these saw this altercation happen in the grass. Of the remaining witnesses, two claimed to have heard an older and younger voice arguing, but little or no sounds of a scuffle, then a gunshot.
  • Martin was said, in trial, to have been beating Zimmerman's head against the concrete, an account that was presented by Zimmerman and supported by no other testimony given at the time of the incident. If the word "concrete" were replaced with the word "grass," perhaps things would appear more consistent. That said, eyewitness testimony is widely regarded to be a very inexact and weak account.
  • Martin was staying in the gated community that Zimmerman was meant to be protecting. Zimmerman was tasked with protecting Martin.
  • Zimmerman had a restraining order granted against him in 2005 by his ex-fiancee, who claimed domestic violence. Yes, seven years can change a person completely, but it doesn't always. Yes, this comes across as rather circumstantial evidence, but it shouldn't have been excluded so cavalierly by the judge.

Zimmerman's account of Martin to the police was certainly an example of racial profiling, but I don't believe that Zimmerman was categorically racist. In 2011, Zimmerman protested the beating of a black homeless man by the son of a white police officer. He was quite adamant that this was not acceptable. While this isn't necessarily conclusive, it's worth something. Also, it should be noted that the media did look to capitalize on racial issues. Before actually seeing Zimmerman, I admit that I pictured someone much older and much more... white. Even this is different than the image that the name conjures, but that's just unexpected, not really of any consequence. Zimmerman is of mixed ethnicity (white/Hispanic), so people jumping on white supremacist arguments are rather ill-informed (though I've only come across one, maybe two, such people). This is not to say, however, that this was not at least partially motivated by race. Zimmerman profiled Martin and, from the sound of the call to the police, made up his mind on the spot.

Presumed innocence is a wonderful thing, and shouldn't be discounted. Placing the burden of proof with the prosecution is a great safeguard against overzealous persecution, to be sure. And, all things considered, the burden of proof was only just met in this case, if indeed it was at all. This had quite a bit to do with the inadequacy of the prosecution, however. First, the prosecution failed to enter any charges except second-degree murder. This means that the jury is not to consider any lesser charges, like manslaughter, and, if acquitted, double jeopardy would protect against being tried for any lesser charges in the future. It's quite common practice to bring the primary charge as well as lesser charges, so that the jury is able to consider these as well. The prosecutor's failure to do so was, at best, a rookie move. The remainder of the prosecution was not any better, honestly. The entire trial had the feel of the prosecution "throwing the game." Ultimately, this may have been a particularly tough case to win, but the effort was far from valiant. Even still, acquittal under Florida's "Stand Your Ground" law requires that the individual be in reasonable fear of imminent death or great bodily harm. Reasonable fear. In a situation with no solid eyewitnesses except Zimmerman himself (and Martin, I suppose, but that didn't help, did it?), how can anyone speculate about Zimmerman's mental state? It certainly leaves more than a little bit of reasonable doubt.

So here's Zimmerman's story: He [GZ] pursues Martin, who, unprovoked, punches him hard enough in the nose to knock him down. Martin then pins him down, pummeling GZ with his fists, and bashes GZ's head against the concrete sidewalk and tries to strangle him. Martin then spots GZ's gun and reaches for it, but not before uttering some James Bond villain line. GZ gets to the gun first and shoots.

Holes in the story:

  • Zimmerman significantly outweighs Martin. At 5'11", 158 lbs., Martin is quite a skinny guy. For him to punch someone quite a bit larger than himself, unprovoked, doesn't ring as particularly clever. Further, for him to get the drop on Zimmerman and knock him down with a single punch is rather impressive, if not terribly unlikely.
  • Zimmerman is pinned on his back, unable to get a hand free. Martin sees Zimmerman's gun (black) in its holster (black) in the dark. By the way, this holster is inside the back of Zimmerman's waistband.
  • Zimmerman, while being pinned down and strangled, manages to get a hand free, reach underneath himself, pull the gun, trip the safety, and shoot Martin directly in the center of the chest.
  • Martin's autopsy reveals no swelling in the knuckles or hands.

So Martin, a skinny, unarmed teenager, is gifted with abnormal speed and strength, along with X-ray vision and imperviousness to blunt trauma. Perhaps Zimmerman had some Kryptonite on him, and this allowed him to get his hand free.

Another idea, equally speculative: Zimmerman wanted to shoot Martin, chased after him with his gun already drawn, shot and killed him, then tried to build a defense by bloodying himself up a bit, [Spoiler alert!] Fight Club style. As a student of criminal justice, Zimmerman knows Florida's "Stand Your Ground" law and what is required for its application.

Ultimately, reasonable doubt was not too much of a stretch. Most of the evidence was circumstantial, and, as there was virtually no other reliable eyewitness testimony, the only story told was told by the defendant. Here's the thing, though: Martin received no due process. If he had been tried for assault, there would be no additional evidence to present, and the lack of swelling in his hands would seem to indicate that perhaps events did not unfold precisely as presented by the defense. Martin would not have been able to be convicted of assault, and yet, Zimmerman is able to use this unprovable event to justify his shooting of Martin.

One quick tie-in to a previous post: language is particularly important here, isn't it? Words like "shooting" and "suspicious individual" form a sentence like this: George Zimmerman stands trial for the shooting of a suspicious individual in Sanford, Florida. Take away this spin, and try it this way instead: George Zimmerman stands trial for the murder of an unarmed child. Because that's what we view minors to be, is it not? Murder murder murder. Child child child. Makes a difference, doesn't it?


One last bit: I came across a question on Show of Hands (a phone app that presents surveys for public opinion, and wisely limits responses to two choices) that asked, upon delivery of the verdict, whether the case was simple, open-and-shut, or whether it was more complex. Having submitted my own response, I thought I'd check out the comment section. What I found there was horrifying. It seems that the segment of the general public that chose to participate in these discussions has one of two opinions:
1. Zimmerman is guilty, and should have been convicted. He was let go because the system is racially biased, and the Florida stand-your-ground law is, in itself, criminal.
2. Zimmerman is innocent. He was attacked and permitted to use deadly force. More than this, Zimmerman is a sort of champion -- a hero. Not only was he justified in his actions, but he was right to kill Martin.

What?

Is this where we are, that we can support the death of an unarmed minor? Whether you want to view Zimmerman as innocent or guilty, how is it possible to applaud his actions? Do you think Zimmerman is applauding his own actions? I have to imagine that right about now, he feels rather like a big steaming pile. Justified or not, he killed another human. I can't imagine he feels too good about that. And then I hear these arguments about, "it's a victory for gun rights," or, "it's a victory against reverse racism," or any number of equally ludicrous claims. I commented something along the lines of, "whether innocent or guilty, at least we can agree that this was a truly tragic event." Someone refuted this. Again, what? Trayvon Martin is dead. His family, his friends, his schoolmates, will never see him again. George Zimmerman has been dragged through the media and is now deeply hated by thousands (if not millions) of strangers who will never even meet him. He will spend the rest of his life waiting for the other shoe to drop, looking over his shoulder. And you want to tell me that none of this is tragic? I don't care which side you want to take, this is not just another Sunday. And to anyone disagreeing with this, shame.

I know there will be outspoken people on both sides of this. While I understand that Zimmerman may have come across as not guilty under the law, I think he was far from innocent. The idea that there is a set of circumstances under which this whole ordeal isn't strictly illegal, is disgusting. These are the sorts of things that happen in many countries, but it shouldn't be happening here. It shouldn't be happening anywhere, but it's just ridiculous that this can happen here. Worse, however, is that, through this whole ordeal, Florida isn't likely to make any changes. It'll continue to "stay the course" until some governor's family is victimized. Or maybe a Senator. Or maybe just a rich kid. Florida, if only your stupidity had stopped with hanging chads.

Friday, July 5, 2013

Big Banks

I came across the following question:
Are big banks ethical, or not?

Simple enough question, right? Well, it comes with a simple enough answer: not. Big banks are not ethical. Here's my reasoning:

Merrian-Webster defines ethical as:

  1. of or relating to ethics
  2. involving or expressing moral approval or disapproval
  3. conforming to accepted standards of conduct
  4. of a drug: restricted to sale only on a doctor's presription

Admittedly, that last one doesn't really apply here.
Ethics, here, is defined as: the discipline dealing with what is good and bad and with moral duty and obligation. Again, more definitions follow, but these deal with things like work ethic, which isn't what we're looking at. In short, ethical deals with right and wrong.

Let's take a look at right and wrong. Where do we get these ideas? Where do we turn to for a list of rights and wrongs? Let's look at some major religions and philosophies:

Buddhism
"One discerns wrong livelihood as wrong livelihood, and right livelihood as right livelihood. And what is wrong livelihood? Scheming, persuading, hinting, belittling, and charging interest. This is wrong livelihood."
--Siddharta Gautama Buddha in his sermon on the Eightfold Path (Majjhima Nikaya Suttra 117)

Islam
O you who believe, you shall not take interest, compounded over and over. Observe God, that you may succeed.
(Quran 3:130)

Christianity and Judaism
“You shall not charge interest on loans to your brother, interest on money, interest on food, interest on anything that is lent for interest."
(Deuteronomy 23:19


I know these things get taken out of context way too often, but I think the idea is pretty clear: lending for profit isn't viewed too fondly in most structured schools of thought. On an entirely unrelated sidenote, Scientology doesn't care one way or the other about this. I digress. While lending for profit is not unique to big banks, it is certainly prevalent there. After all, the prompting question dealt with big banks, not banks in general.

Perhaps you think to yourself, "maybe my ethics don't come from some major philosophy or religion." (Another sidenote, free of charge: try to think of just where these ideas do come from. It's not as easy as it sounds.) Maybe you carefully weigh what's best for people, or even society as a whole. Maybe you calculate the effects of each action so meticulously that you can say, for certain, that something is Right or Wrong. Or maybe, it's just a feeling. I feel, on some level that I may not fully understand, that this is Right and that is Wrong. Great. I'd say, as long as you have some sense of right and wrong, and that sense isn't simply self-serving, doesn't put people unnecessarily in harm's way, etc., that's all anyone can really ask for.

So maybe the question is, doesn't this just feel wrong? Doesn't it feel kind of sleazy? Variable interest rates. They're a gamble, to be sure, and, depending on economic trends, one may need to be fairly dumb to jump in. That, or rather desperate. Let's leave dumb alone for a second.

Say you're a single parent, trying to raise a couple of kids. Say your ex decided to walk out, maybe run away with a flight attendant, I don't know. Say that, rather than be some kind of responsible (however loosely this word is being used in this case), said ex now neglects child support. And say that this house that you bought together is no longer something you can afford. You do what you can, as a single parent, to work while your kids are at school (if they're old enough), to do data-entry from home at night, trying to scrape together enough money for food, heat, electricity, and a mortgage. Then there's some unexpected expense: a hospital bill, car breaks down, whatever. You miss a payment. Suddenly, you're behind. And of course, now the ball is rolling. Soon enough, foreclosure looms. Too bad.

These circumstances, while rather severe, are not that unlikely. The flight attendant thing may narrow the scope a bit, but so it goes. Here's where I think the evil of big banks blossoms. In a small bank or credit union, you're an account holder, but you're one of a relatively small pool. You can push for a meeting with someone who has the authority to stay the foreclosure, perhaps, or suspend or restructure the repayment of such-and-such loan, or what have you. In a small enough pool, your voice is more likely to be heard. If you have this meeting and are thrilled with how accommodating this bank was, you spread that word, and this works well for the bank as well. If this goes poorly, negative publicity has more effect as well. In a big bank situation, you may get that meeting, but you just don't matter. Bad publicity, good publicity, you're a number, and not one that's likely to ever be viewed by an actual person. Again, this is true of many large-scale institutions, but it's banks I'm addressing.

Doesn't it just feel wrong, to be so indifferent to someone's desperation? Or worse, to take advantage of it? I see the bind you're in, and can offer you a loan at such-and-such that will, in the short term, allow you to care for your family, but, in the long term, destroy you. Doesn't it feel wrong to take advantage of this sort of desperation? And, while we're at it, it's not so great to take advantage of someone who doesn't know what they're getting themselves into. Targeting young people with little or no experience in these contracts, or old people with little or no means to retaliate, sounds an awful lot like picking off the weak. Is this where we are? Are we right back on animal survival instincts, turning anywhere we can, exploiting who we can, to turn a profit? You know what's more? We allow this to continue.

Tuesday, June 25, 2013

Words

To the scientific community:

I think it's time to rework some key terms. I know it's rather ridiculous that it might come to this, but here it is. By throwing around certain words, the general public is given (ill-begotten) ammunition for arguments in which they have no leg to stand on. Rather than hold out and hope that eagerness or curiosity will set in and a mass conversion to correct speech occurs, I propose this: Let's just change some of the words.


To the general public:

As you are clearly not willing to learn a little vocabulary, maybe this will help clear a couple of things up



There are some words that, if altered, could probably squash some debates, or at least force the involved parties to examine the opposite side of the argument as well as their own.
Example: Theory vs. Hypothesis.
This is the big one. The word theory, to the general public, seems to imply a large amount of uncertainty. This is, to a point, true, of course, but not in the way certain groups seem to believe. A scientific theory is an educated proposal of explanation that is consistent with existing data and is constantly sharpened. A theory cannot be proven, though. A hypothesis is sort of like a pre-theory. You've got some background knowledge, maybe you've even made some decent observations, but you're just coming up with a tentative guess, mostly so that you have some sort of direction in your research/experiment.
Here's the idea: Suppose you had a few billion dice. You grab a die at random and notice it has six sides, and that the side with the most dots on it has exactly six. You develop a hypothesis: Dice have six dots on their most populated sides. You grab another die, this one having five sides, and notice that the side with the most dots on it has exactly five. Time for a new hypothesis: a die has as many dots on its most populated side as it has sides. You now grab another die and notice the same thing. You continue to do this for a couple thousand dice, always with the same observation. You might begin to form a theory: having sampled so many of these dice at random, and having always observed the same trend, I propose that the side with the most dots has exactly as many dots as the number of sides the die has. Seems solid enough, right? It's still a theory, though, because you haven't proven anything definitively. The only way to do that would be to check every single die, which may not be possible to do. Still, for each die you check, a consistent observation strengthens your theory. Keep in mind, however, that observing a single counterexample would debunk your theory. Do we see the trouble here?

So perhaps, instead of the word theory, we start to use the phrase, "pretty damn sure." I think this will clear up some confusion.

There is, of course, a big follow-up post to come, and I'm sure you can guess the general idea. Let's leave that one for another day, though. In the meantime, I have a hypothesis that I'll be sleeping in the next five minutes or so.

Thursday, June 20, 2013

Affirmative Action

Regarding affirmative action: I agree that it's definitely not a solution, but something needs to be in place. We've systematically done all we can to destroy entire groups of people (goverment-sanctioned genocide, let's call it what it was), and dehumanized another for the sole purpose of oppression. Consequently, we've created a large socioeconomic divide that's not exactly shrinking. Then, after decades of this oppression after slavery, we say, "now catch up"? Hardly seems right... It's like taking two dogs, training and feeding one, and breaking the other's legs, then putting out a bowl of food, and calling it an equal opportunity.

And I know those directly responsible are dead and gone, but we were slaves in Egypt, right? We don't have to be proud of our past, but we do have to own it.

So while I agree that affirmative action is not going to solve the problem, something has to be done.

Saturday, June 15, 2013

Immigration

I came across this question recently, and would like to address a couple things, or at least express my thoughts here.

Question: Is it fair to require illegal immigrants to take an English proficiency test?

This makes a handful of things come to mind:

  • They're illegal immigrants. Is there some calling to round up illegal immigrants and quiz them? I was under the impression that when one is caught holding the status of Illegal, one begins the deportation process. Doesn't it seem like adding insult to injury to require some sort of language assessment when one is already beginning the process of being deported? "Not only are you being sent back to a country that you clearly tried pretty hard to get away from, but we'd like to point out that your English isn't so hot."
  • If the question, instead, were something like: "Is it fair to require illegal immigrants to take an English proficiency test prior to being considered for legal status?", then I could understand that part, at least (though I'd still have more issues with this).
  • The US does not have a national language. True story: English is not the national language of the USA. True, it is currently the most common language, but it won't be forever. Smith and Jones are making way for Garcia and Rodriguez as the most common surnames in the US.
  • What about current US citizens who don't speak English? What about Native Americans -- you know, the only people who didn't immigrate here at some point? If you want to make the argument that, "If you want to live in my country, you should have to speak my language," then shouldn't we all be speaking Algonquian? Na-Dene? Gulf? Or does that not count? I have a hard time following your logic.
  • Is it then okay with you to immigrate illegally from an English-speaking country? Or, if one learns English and then immigrates illegally, is that acceptable? Is it all about the order of events? Because I'm rather certain that it's widely accepted that immersion is the most efficient way to learn a new language.
  • And then there's this word: FAIR. Is this something we value? Is fairness something we'd like to achieve? How happy would you be if you got exactly what you deserved in life: no more, no less? Consider, while you're reading this on a computer/smartphone, there are people, and not just a few, that risk their lives every day to get water for themselves and their families to drink. And it's not clean water. Oh no. The water we use in our toilets is cleaner than the water they risk their lives to be able to drink. This is water we wouldn't dream of having to drink, let alone giving to our children. So if you want to talk about fair, bring it on. By the way, don't hear me say that I'm above taking things for granted. If only. But you won't hear me complaining about my life being unfair, because, well, I'm damn lucky that it is.

It just seems that there's an unacceptably large portion of the population that needs everyone to be just like them - not because it will improve the world we live in, but just because "this is Merrka." And to you, I say, in the most loving and respectful way possible, get over yourself.